Alice Metcalfe has undertaken an exhaustive quest in this brilliant little book, illustrated with some lusciously explicit photography, to get to the bottom of the best blow jobs in the world. She writes that if you don’t want it in your mouth at all, you can combine the ejaculation with something visually and psychologically exciting. Your man is just as likely to be thrilled if you allow him to bank his deposit over your breasts. Equally, allowing a man to ejaculate onto your face could be very blissful for him.